Feeding a big family costs about $1,500 a month at the supermarket — $18,000 a year. At that level the grocery-card conversation most articles have simply stops applying, because the famous grocery rates are capped, and this family blows through every cap before Memorial Day.
Blue Cash Preferred's 6% ends at $6,000 a year — month four for this family — then pays 1% on the remaining $12,000. The cards that matter here are the ones whose grocery rate never runs out, and among those, the fee decides it.
Key insight
Citi Strata Premier wins at ~$1,158/yr: 3x on groceries with NO cap — all $18,000 earns the bonus — plus the same 3x on this family's dining, gas, and travel, for a $95 fee. Amex Gold's 4x (capped at $25,000/yr, so also uncapped in practice here) earns more raw points, but its full $325 fee holds it to ~$1,117/yr — a $41 gap that's pure fee. Chase Aeroplan (2x on groceries and dining since its September 2026 refresh, 3x through year-end) comes in at ~$698/yr. And the card every "best grocery card" article leads with? Blue Cash Preferred nets ~$632/yr — barely half the winner — because $12,000 of this family's groceries earn 1% after its cap dies in April. The cap chart below shows the exact month the 6% stops.